The Myth of Women Lifting Weights and Building Large Muscles
If you are a woman and reading this, do you get the nagging feeling that you will put on huge muscles when you do resistance training? This is one of the biggest myths that hold women back from successfully losing weight and keeping it off.
Unfortunately, this myth is still very prevalent today. This myth has been spread by seeing women bodybuilders in muscle magazines and TV. This has sent the wrong message to women that they too would build large muscles when doing resistance training. A woman’s mind has subconsciously made the association of big hulk muscles with the dumbbell. Women need to do some reprogramming.
Women can never build large muscles like men. Men are able to build large muscles because they have large amounts of the testosterone hormone. Women have only very very tiny amounts of this hormone. Does that come as a surprise that women too have testosterone?Testosterone is the hormone that boosts sex drive in both sexes.But once again, the testosterone levels in women are so very very low.
Women bodybuilders are able to build large muscles because they actually inject themselves with testosterone and other muscle building drugs. These women start having masculine features like a square jaw, facial hair, etc. So unless a woman is injecting herself with steroids and bodybuilding drugs, there is no way on earth that she could even build a protruding bicep!
Like I have said before, it is difficult for even men to build muscles let alone women. Losing weight is easy. Building muscles is a whole different ball game. Losing weight is like doing algebra. Building muscles is like doing calculus!
Anyway back to the discussion at hand. When women do resistance training their bodies become extremely firm and compact. Their muscles don’t grow large AT ALL. They just become dense and extremely shapely. The body becomes more curvy and the posture is absolutely erect. The shoulders are steady and firm which gives an illusion of a very slim waist. A lady who does weight resistance training becomes more feminine! The muscles give the body the shape of the hourglass. The more muscles you have the closer your figure is to the hourglass. Look at the hourglass figures of Jenifer Lopez and Beyonce!
Look at most of the latest Bolywood actresses and Hollywood actresses like Angelina Jolie, Jenifer Lopez, Beyonce, etc. Is there even a sign of the lack of femininity in them? Weight resistance training is a core component of their exercise programs.
And remember the other benefits of weight training:
- Prevents loss of lean body mass that happens from dieting and/or aging
- Weight training workouts burn calories
- Helps change your body composition, which helps shape your body and keep you healthy
- Strengthens bones and connective tissue along with muscles
- Helps keep you strong and active as you get older
So to summarize, women should embrace weight resistance training. Let resistance training chisel and melt of the fat to reveal the more feminine, curvy, toned, compact you! I don’t expect women to be able to reprogram that easily but what can be done is to a least attempt 1 – 3 months of weight training on blind faith. Once you see how it transfoms and reveals the shapely you, you will never let go of weight resistance training from your exercise program.
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02/11/2009
Its funny though because woman just don’t want to believe this. Lean muscle will help you burn more fat, it’s pretty simple. I had this argument with my girl when we were working out together and I finally got her to start believing me.
02/11/2009
You are absolutely right. It will be a perpetual battle!
30/09/2010
Great post – especially for all the ladies out there who are concerned that they will immediately begin to resemble men and lose their delectable hourglass figures the second that they begin lifting weights. Great article and i will be directing my female clients towards your blog !
15/11/2010
There are still women out there who think that strength training will cause them to build large muscles. Sadly, this myth has caused a lot of women to shun strength training. If they only knew what a tremendous effect strength training has on losing weight.
27/11/2010
great post!
it is amazing to me that women hold onto this myth so fiercely.
I have been lifting heavily for over 6 months and my body has absolutely been transformed. I used to be a pear shape…I am now much closer to an hourglass. I dieted and did cardio for YEARS trying to achieve this with very poor results.
ps: You say “dieting it easy. building muscle is hard”. To me, losing weight has always been near impossible and a veritable torture. I would have to deny myself so totally and completely to see any results that I felt like I was living with a terminal illness. In contrast, weight training is fun and gives me MORE energy. Though I work hard during my lifting sessions, it requires one tenth of the will required to “diet:”.
I think many women would feel this way too. If they could turn the energy, focus and drive that they display while “dieting” toward weight training…..they would be unstoppable! And frankly, they would find it “easy” compared to the torture of dieting.
14/01/2011
Thank you for that very interesting feedback Kathleen. I always felt that weight loss was easy. With a little know how of how the body works, one can effortlessly get the pounds down. Building muscle is a whole different ball game. Building muscles is one thing and maintaining them is another. The body is always fighting to reduce your muscle load. Thanks for the feedback.
02/03/2011
Personally I don’t like women with muscles. It is nice for a woman to have a nice and harmonious body, a worked up body, but not with muscles. This is too much, too male.